So theres no room for a bit of humour?,what stuffy sad people!All I can say is your manx blood must be very diluted!
Incidentally, I do not know Sandy but wish I did,like me, she must have been born and bred here!
If your going to ask manx people for advice on genealogy sites, or anywhere else,,I`m sorry but now and again your going to have to suffer our sense of humour!