the only match I can see are children of Thomas Teare + Letitia Callister - Margret C. was age 1 in 1861 census, brother Phillip H aws age 4, there was a John James age 3
in 1861 Thomas was farming 100ac at Milntown, in 1851 43 ac at Ballamona so would appear to be a tennant farmer - he + Letitia m 1848
(Letitia d 1908 age 84 - d/o Patrick Callister + Alice Kelly)
Thomas born 1816 s/o Thos Teare + Ann Cleator