I gathered from a conversation which was meant to pass over my head some 45 years ago that your grandfather was considered an eligible suitor for my great-aunt. However Herbie chose elsewhere and Auntie remained a spinster therefore our genealogies don't cross at that particular point.
This board seems to function as a kind of collective memory - so hope that your lineage is not a complete mystery, but conversely don't expect your activities to have been entirely un-noticed by its followers.

Are you actively hunting ancestors?