Thanks again Frances.

This rellie made it difficult as she was an illigitimate child, was schooled under the name Quirk, on her marriage certificate put herself down as Drysdale for her maiden name ....and as far as her real birth date goes.......well it is a guess of 1877 or according to the death certificate info from her son was given as 1874. The only thing I think I find her on is as a domestic servant under the name of Annie J. which is probably really an I. Quirk. Thanks for your help. :)