Oh oh. I've got something wrong here. I didn't know Robert, son of John G & Eliz Oates had died so early. I had jumped on the burial of Robert Gelling in 1849 that says "Paper Mill Ballamillaghan" and assigned him to the wrong Ballamillaghyn family.
I'll have to get back to you on this. Sorry about that. Thanks Jean for spotting this. It's important to get these things right, so eagle eyes are great.