thanks donna. i have now after all this timefound the right julia jane cain she died 1929 the one i have been trying to comes to terms with was wrong,
donna do you think you can help me sort this out
julia jane cain died in home for poor widow of thomas cain carter,
thomas cain was baptisd john thomas cain born 1864 patrick,h married julia jane comish 1885, he was still alive in 1901 cenus, we found a buriel for john thomas cain 1902 but no death cert any where

would it help if i looked for a thomas cain ( as we now know he didnt use his name john ) would it make a diffrence he would have died between 1902 and 1928 then as julia was widowed when she died 1929 and please tell me have i made this all plain or confusing again