Umm, this might be a bit way of base, but I worked with a a very handsome tall man on our team of Lifeguards at Lake Chautauqua Institute, NY. Back in the very late 70's, and early 1980's. He was a bit older than me, perhaps in his mid 20's. I remember the last name, his face, but not his first name. If you think he might be tied to your family, I can try to reach old friends I haven't been in touch with for a while.